The Harm Reduction Omnivore
Wednesday, April 21st, 2010
Long before Michael Pollan changed the way we think about food, we were influenced by our own resident activist. Our daughter, Emma, then age seven, returned one summer from Marin Humane Society camp proselytizing against animal cruelty and dolphin-safe tuna.
We endured her preaching for a few days, until her hunger for Chicken-of-the-Sea got the better of her. I resumed packing lunch boxes with a sigh of relief, but also with a pang of regret. Deep down, I knew Emma was right.
As our little girl became a teenager, she graduated from chewing to eschewing meat even before mad cow disease made front page news. This time, strengthened by the fervor of adolescent idealism, her resolve stuck for good.
At first, accommodating Emma’s vegetarianism was easy, practically a throwback to toddlerhood, when default meals of milk and cereal were commonplace. Suspicious of anything green or spicy, she was initially more of a carbo-tarian. But soon the grocery cart was piled high with braised tofu and arugula. Big Macs were supplanted by Boca Burgers.
Sick of preparing separate meals, I became adept at leaving pancetta out of pasta carbonara and concocting hearty salads with optional chicken on the side. I discovered quinoa and the wondrous, budget-friendly versatility of legumes.
Initially, I missed the slow simmer of beef stew and pot roast rubbed with garlic and rosemary. But parents are used to sacrificing for their children, so I no longer brought red meat into the house. One day Emma was tempted by the fragrance of barbecued chicken on the grill. She did not succumb. When I asked how she resisted, she simply said, “I want it, and then I remember that chicken is not for me.”
Watching Emma ignore a passing appetite for a greater purpose inspired me to live up to her example.
But I did not want to go cold turkey, or give up turkey at all, for that matter.
In the treatment of addiction, there is a concept known as harm reduction, in which the addict is encouraged to decrease high-risk behavior, such as drunk driving or sharing needles, while on the path to a clean and sober lifestyle.
The same principle can be applied to food. I now think of myself as a harm-reducing omnivore. I don’t quite have the fortitude to pass up succulent barbecued chicken, and I still relish a great steak at a restaurant now and then. But I try to minimize the damage of my choices, moving ever closer to vegetarianism, the foodie equivalent of a clean and sober lifestyle. Most of our meals are meatless. I make sure that rare, juicy steak is sustainably raised. More and more of our food is locally grown, organic, and unprocessed. It may cost a bit more at the grocery checkout or farmer’s market, but it’s a far better bargain when the environmental, transportation, and moral expenses are calculated.
Emma grew up and moved away, but the idealism and habits she instilled in us remain. What started out as a begrudging way to humor her has become a tasty and easy choice of better health for us and the world. Now soups brimming with spinach and butternut squash simmer on the back burner. Our younger daughter feasts on fresh red peppers instead of Doritos. We try to follow Michael Pollan’s haiku-like dictum: “Eat Food. Mostly Plants. Not Too Much.” We may still be People Eating Tasty Animals rather than fully deserving members of the real PETA, but we are headed in the right direction.
The path of harm reduction leads to better health, humanely treated animals, a lighter conscience, and a planet less imperiled, not to mention a killer salad composed of arugula, black beans, and fresh corn. This time, I think I’ll skip the optional shredded chicken.
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A wonderful essay. I believe I was that same teenager in my household, and at the age of 35, I’m still preaching to my parents about food- the organic,sustainable and mostly vegetarian kind. Now, I’m able to hand them books by Pollan, Barbara Kingsolver and Ruth Ozeki. I’m glad someone’s done all the research and put it in one place. Great piece. Thanks for sharing. And I love the ‘vegetannual’ pic.
Cheers,
Allison
Such well-crafted writing! For example, “We endured her preaching for a few days….” The verb “endured” is absolutely perfect. Great blog, Lorrie.
Lovely blog. In our carnivore household I’m lucky to see a green leaf floating around so this has inspired me to eat healthier. Thank you
Dear Allison, Jessica, and Claire–
Thanks for your kind words. Sometimes I think the main reasons to have kids are to be able to eat PB&J sandwiches without embarrassment, and to be inspired by them!
Happy earth day.
Hey Lorrie.. great essay that piqued my own memory banks.
I was also Emma in my family.. I was up against instant mashed potatoes and aunt jemimas maple syrup-I was so demanding–real spuds and real maple syrup..if only they knew how the world would change!
PB &J for all-
Seldom do I read something so real and inspirational, you took words from my heart and made a well written piece. Your daughter seems a lot like myself, now and then. I am still fighting off in-laws and popcicle trucks like a crazy person nowadays. I wonder if we who live like Pollan are the majority or the minority?
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